Hello friends, this post going to be really small and straight forward. I will be putting forward few points and questions, and I just want you all to ponder upon it and think about it.
“You are studying and you have enrolled yourself in a course. But is it what you wanted to do?”
“You are married and your wife’s family still doesn’t like you. Will you be mad at her and blame her?”
“You are one of the board of directors of a company and a decision has to be made but you will be fired if you will go against others. So what will you do?”
“You have a best friend. And he likes someone. And now, even you too have started to like her. What will you do? Confess to your best friend or not?”
“You have a best deal to pick up for your carreer but if you plan to accept it then you have to be far away from your family? What will you do, accept it or not?”
“You love someone, but you hate her when she hugs you in public as you don’t like public affection? She will get mad at you if you tell her? Will you confess or not?”
You want to do something but something happens which put you across a cross point. Cross point where-
One way satisfies you,
Second, earns grudges for you,
Third is not suitable for you,
And fourth, it’s not for you.
Which direction will you choose? What will YOU do?
copyright aditi kochhar
Choices are something which everyone has to deal with at some point of time. Sooner or later, no matter how much you try to evade... it simply gets onto you.
ReplyDeleteBut what matters most is whether you are happy with that choice or not. Choosing something/someone just for their sake would not only destroy you but will also ruin other's life.
So choose carefully, keep all the past, present and future in mind... Be Aware (mind it.. its NOT beware... its BE AWARE) of the consequences.
Some choices can never be reverted. Take care... stay happy and keep writing.
Cheers,
kv
yea I agree that one should Be Aware while making choices but what I wana know through this post is while put in the situations mentioned above what would people do?
ReplyDeleteWhen a situation splits apart into four directions, what will one do? Obviously person would sensibly think about it and would take a wise decision but what will that wise decision be?
Dear Aditi,
ReplyDeleteI have always admired the way you pen down your thoughts despite of the fact that I seldom reply. (However, I do read your posts quite frequently) :)
anyway, if u notice i have already answered your question adi... my answer is a one word which says everything and the word is 'HAPPY'.
even though you have given 4 directions which can confuse any sane person (smile) but if the person is HAPPY while making choices he wont have any problem.
Let me elaborate if its still unclear...
One way satisfies you,(you are satisfied ONLY WHEN YOU ARE HAPPY)
Second, earns grudges for you, (then you cant be HAPPY hence choice stands INVALID)
Third is not suitable for you, (how can you be HAPPY if the choice is NOT suitable for you.. smile)
And fourth, it’s not for you. (pretty obvious that YOU WONT BE HAPPY in this case)
I hope my explanation suffices your questions :)
keep writing, love your thoughts
your BIGGEST fan, (smile)
KV